taking accountability...

My observation is that, Most books, be it from stoics like aurelius, seneca or be it any modern age writers, the message is the same.

And it is “If we want to better our lives, take accountability. Focus on what you can control and letgo/accept what isn’t. Don’t blame anyone. If your life is fucked up now, then blaming and pitying yourself isn’t going to change anything. Accept it and take small steps towards making it better”

So next time, Instead of blaming/complaining, think of what you can do, to get out of the mess.

Accept. Learn. Move on.